Re: Mind's Eye Re: It's Sexuality, Orientation Be Damned !

Snufflemart - I love it.

On 16 Sep, 19:25, Allan H <allanh1...@gmail.com> wrote:
> I bought a top hat in perfect condition at a snufflemart second hand
> sales..I forget what they are called in the US, England, they are car boot
> sale. Finding one was good fortune impeccable condition.  Now that was at
> one time the symbol of masculinity ,, Now I see more women wearing them
> than men,  I bought it for part of a steampunk costume.
> I think the world has changed or at  least my world.. and the situations
> where i see the inequality the ladies are the ones who do not want
>  equality when I have  asked..   but thinking about it  since I have been
> on wife support since I have here in Europe.. mainly for tax reasons...  I
> see why the ladies like hubbie support.
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> It is very nice..
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> On Sun, Sep 16, 2012 at 5:56 PM, Molly <mollyb...@gmail.com> wrote:
> > I think that women can be masculine and men can be effeminate, we've all
> > seen it, folks that have a lopsided tendency toward male or female aspects,
> > whether they are toward their own gender or the opposite.  But we each have
> > both, to a more or less integrated degree.  They can be independent of
> > sexuality or not.  Sometimes sexuality can be used in relationships to gain
> > dominance or as manipulation.  why is a good question.
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> > On Sunday, September 16, 2012 11:16:20 AM UTC-4, Allan Heretic wrote:
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> >> I think Molly that other than child birth and the individual roles, i
> >> think personality traits often time assigned to gender are in reality of
> >> neither gender but both, if you have to be both dad and mom you are dad
> >> when called for mom when needed, the is no gender specific personality
> >> traits that I know of
> >> Allan
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> >> On Sun, Sep 16, 2012 at 4:59 PM, Molly <moll...@gmail.com> wrote:
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> >>> More and more, I find myself working with folks that I would consider to
> >>> be fully integrated in male/female aspects.  Meaning, that action/passion;
> >>> hunting/gathering; planning/nurturing; microcosm/**macrocosm;
> >>> emotional/logical and any other self ascribed delineation.  Each of us has
> >>> both aspects, born to a specific gender with the grand design of
> >>> procreation in unity.  There is no one way for this to work, and diversity
> >>> is one of the wonders of the world at any age.  We can all benefit with
> >>> matters that leave us secure with time to pursue fulfillment, men and women
> >>> alike. Life, at all times, presents us with opportunities for recognition
> >>> and integration that is reflected in our experience.  We can accept the
> >>> invitation, or assign it to an other.
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> >>> On Saturday, September 15, 2012 9:47:32 AM UTC-4, Vam wrote:
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> >>>> Societal values are not yet settled ... on account of age-old sexuality
> >>>> !
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> >>>> Simply put, women rate money and bread earning way above else. Now,
> >>>> there might not be many men who do not likewise value but the "Male
> >>>> Principle" is certainly less worldly, if I may put it, less anchored to,
> >>>> engrossed in and content with that pursuit.
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> >>>> I, for one, believe that the world is made for the "Female Principle."
> >>>> And, it would solve a lot many problems if men crowned their women with
> >>>> matters that leave them secure and bought time to pursue that which
> >>>> fulfills them.
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> >>>> Socrates might have been ugly but that was the least of defects in the
> >>>> eyes of his wife !
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> >>>  --
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> >> --
> >>  (
> >>   )
> >> |_D Allan
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> >> Life is for moral, ethical and truthful living.
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> >> I am a Natural Airgunner -
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> >>  Full of Hot Air & Ready To Expel It Quickly.
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> >>   --
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> --
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>   )
> |_D Allan
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> Life is for moral, ethical and truthful living.
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> I am a Natural Airgunner -
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>  Full of Hot Air & Ready To Expel It Quickly.

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