Re: Mind's Eye Re: Why me ?

The other side of RP's question might be stated 'there but for the
grace of god go I'. Going a bit far to hire a lawyer as a husband/
father rigs! Or have I got that wrong? My dad was great but still
did me a fair bit of harm with his sulks and emotional inabilities.
I'm not sure I did any better. My partner's daughters were abused by
their father and living with them was tough.
I'm at the dentist with my back teeth next week. Snap! - or at least
I hope I'll still be able to!

I think I associate 'why me' with bullying rather than deep ontology.

On 3 May, 14:05, rigs <rigs...@gmail.com> wrote:
> Some of the disconnect between parent and child is a "mixed message",
> generational shifts in culture and peer pressure.
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> Now, about my tooth. :-) I am on the way to another gold crown after a
> temp a couple of days ago. The good news- minus the price tag- is that
> my dentist thinks I will be around long enough to get some mileage out
> of this molar as it has to take over the grinding function of the
> molar that was pulled last fall.
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> Back to topic- we may learn many lessons via our children versus our
> parents. I had three sons and one daughter and the daughter opened a
> whole new view of my life for me. She thought me ridiculous and
> powerful, I suppose. We have a very good relationship after the bumpy
> years of high school and college. But I was a "single" mother most of
> the time and I do wonder what difference a father might have made as
> my own father had a lasting impact even though he died when I was
> eight. At that point, I should have hired a lawyer! :-) Anyway, my
> neighbors are well adjusted couples and stressed with their teens so
> it just may be a given.
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> On May 3, 2:48 am, gabbydott <gabbyd...@gmail.com> wrote:
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> > Whenever my parents tried arguing along that line I found that made them
> > look ridiculous. I  tried arguing along the more serious line with my son
> > and he found I was looking ridiculous. That's my truth today. Tomorrow I
> > will tell you a different one - until there are no more unreplied deep
> > thoughts left.
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> > 2013/5/3 andrew vecsey <andrewvec...@gmail.com>
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> > > Loving parents have to find the right balance of when to intervene and
> > > help their children and when to let them make mistakes so as to learn from
> > > them. Loving spirits looking down at us have the same difficult choices.
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> > > On Thursday, May 2, 2013 8:40:24 PM UTC+2, rigs wrote:
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> > >> Life is not for sissies- living is a verb. I have trouble thinking
> > >> god(s) are wringing their hands over the fate of anyone given the
> > >> violent path of human history.
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> > >> On Apr 30, 2:13 pm, RP Singh <123...@gmail.com> wrote:
> > >> > Why me ? Why did this happen to me ? But why not! It had to happen to
> > >> > someone so why not me and not because of some weird law of karma. The
> > >> > tragedies of life do not come by choice but are thrust upon someone
> > >> whether
> > >> > deservedly or not.
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