Mind's Eye Unconditional love

There are several issues here, to start with definitions, like,what is love and what is perfect or ideal , without going into these and assuming that we are discussing love between two humans , I would first like to point out that once two people fall in love, they start to change immediately, not as a concoquences of falling in love, but due to the fact that change is a human condition . Change occurs in mental , physiological terms , also the environment around us is constantly changing . A wise lover allows the beloved space and room to grow and change and adapts to whatever change occurs in the beloved . The problem is that this is a conscious act or acts and love is from the unconscious , this adjustment to keep in sync with the beloved is perhaps not love any more or at least not the same kind of love any more .
Other issues are that humans have different make up the alpha he man for example needs to spread his seeds and is therfore promiscuous , the female is attracted to this alpha male , but he is not,a home builder, the not alpha man is a home builder, so the female wishes to have children from the alpha he man but wants these reared with the not alpha man .
The closest to "perfect" love would be a mothers love for her child , this is as close to unconditional love as one can get, although some may argue that mothers love is not axactly unconditional , there are perhaps primal instincts at work here .

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